Looking for 21st birthday ideas that don’t involve alcohol? Here are some amazing 21st Birthday Ideas to help you celebrate and commemorate your milestone birthday.
Overall, my main goal for this article is to highlight that heavy consumption of alcohol is not a prerequisite for having fun.
21st Birthday Ideas Without Alcohol
1. 21st Birthday Brunch
Get dolled up and go out to brunch with friends.
2. Go to the Arcade
Step up your game and enjoy interactive games at the arcade.
3. Take a Class
From dance to cooking, try something new and take a class on something you’ve always wanted to learn.
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4. Have an Intimate Backyard Dinner Party
Turn your backyard into an intimate dining space and host a 21st birthday dinner.
You can decorate with a cute tablecloth, photo booth, balloons, table centerpiece, and fairy lights for a festive and warm mood.
5. Delight in a 21st Birthday Picnic
Enjoy the great outdoors with a delightful 21st birthday picnic.
Spruce up your picnic layout by having balloons, birthday cake, glassware, and other cute party decors to enhance the celebration ambiance.
Related: How to Plan a Picnic With Friends
6. Have a 21st Birthday Tea Party
From quaint tea sandwiches to refreshing tea, celebrate with an elegant tea party.
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7. Throw a Pool Party
Have a sun-sational pool party with friends and family.
Get creative and heighten the festive birthday mood, with party decorations and yummy food options.
Related: The Best Pool Party Ideas for Adults and Teens
8. Roll Around at a Roller Skating Rink
Lace up your skates and show off your best moves at the skating rink.
If you want the entire skating floor to yourself and your friends, many skating rinks offer private party bookings.
9. Have a 21st Birthday Party
Have a classic birthday party with amazing entertainment, decor, and food offerings.
From an intimate tea party to a large scale celebration, your birthday party can be as extravagant and intimate as you want.
21st Birthday Ideas
10. Solve Puzzles at an Escape Room
Test your quick thinking and teamwork skills and gather some friends and attempt an escape room.
There you’ll discover clues and solve puzzles. In order to escape the rooms in a limited amount of time.
11. Go zip Lining
Suspend in the air while zooming past trees on an exhilarating zip line.
12. Go ax Throwing
Practice your form and go ax throwing.
13. Go Parasailing
Fly several hundred feet above the ocean and go parasailing.
14. Go Indoor Skydiving
If you’re looking for a little bit of adrenaline, go indoor skydiving.
You will experience the height and some of the thrills of skydiving in a controlled and less intense environment.
15. Sail Away on a Cruise
Set sail and go on a cruise.
Consider day cruises if you’re not comfortable being at sea for many days. which are considerably cheaper and shorter in duration.
16. Enjoy a hot air Balloon Ride
Go up and away on a magical hot air balloon ride. Don’t forget to look down and experience the remarkable views of the scenery down below.
17. Go jet Skiing
Soar through the water and go jet skiing.
In addition to jet ski rentals, many beaches and lakes offer jet ski guides.
In order to help you safely operate the jet ski and increase your comfort while on the water.
18. Go on a Girls’ Trip
Grab your besties and discover new sceneries, restaurants, and activities on a girl’s trip.
19. Have a Public Scavenger Hunt
Have a nonplaying person(s) create a scavenger hunt and play against your friends to solve the riddles, find clues, and ultimately win the game.
The scavenger hunt can be anywhere, such as the
- Mall
- Backyard
- Zoo
- Park
What to do for 21st Birthday
20. Have a Hotel Slumber Party
Book a hotel room and have a cute slumber party with your friends.
You can decorate the room with balloons, flowers, and other decorations that can be easily cleaned up.
Related: Cozy Pajama Party Ideas For Girls Night In
21. Have a Spa Day
Relax and enjoy a pampered and soothing day with a spa and/or mani-pedi.
You may also like: How to Have a Luxurious At-Home Spa Day
22. Watch a Broadway or Theater Show
If you love theater and the performing arts, purchase a ticket to experience a live broadway/theater show.
23. Create a Time Capsule
Intentionally capture this moment in history and preserve it for the future through a time capsule.
You can set your time capsule to open in a certain amount of years, such as 5, 10, or 15 years from now.
Things you can add to your time capsule:
- Write a letter to your future self
- Add your favorite pictures
- List of 21 things you’ve learned so far in life
- List of your current favorite songs/movies/shows
21st Birthday Themes
24. Spend a day at the Amusement Park
Experience thrilling rides, delicious foods, and beautiful attractions at an amusement park.
25. Laugh out Loud at a Comedy Show
Enjoy a night filled with laughter and amazing entertainment at a comedy show.
26. Go Camping
If you’re an outdoorsy person, celebrate your birthday by camping outside.
Don’t easily dismiss the thought of camping because it seems daunting. You can go glamping which is a more glamourous filter to the camping experience.
27. Visit a Museum
Discover interesting artifacts, arts, and exhibitions at the museum.
28. Watch a Film at the Movie Theater
Go see a new movie at the theater or have a cozy at-home movie night.
29. Go Mini-Golfing
Enjoy a laid-back activity and go mini-golfing.
What to do for Your 21st Birthday
30. Have a Game Night
Take game night to the next level with a birthday party theme.
In addition to your classic games, you can incorporate games relating to you to see who knows you the best.
You may also like: How to Host a Game Night That is Memorable
31. Go to the Beach
Enjoy the cool oceanic breeze and warm sand as you celebrate your birthday at the beach.
Related: 15 Fun Things to do at the Beach
32. Bake a 21st Birthday Cake for Yourself
Whether it’s from a box mix or from scratch, consider baking a delicious birthday cake for yourself. (You can even turn this into a tradition)
If you’re not a cake person, here are some great alternatives:
- Crepe cake
- Pie
- Fruit tart
- Birthday pancakes
- Birthday donuts
- Cake made out of fruits
- Churros
33. Visit a Botanical Garden
Experience vibrant flowers and other natural resources at a botanical garden.
Also, it can serve as a cute and whimsical photo spot.
34. Donate to Charity/Volunteer in Your Community
Celebrate your birthday with service and donate your time, money, or other resources to those in need.
Sample service ideas for your 21st Birthday
- Ask for financial donations toward a charity instead of birthday gifts
- Donate items (Clothes, non-perishable food, toys, toiletries) to a shelter
- Contribute to an environmental project, such as a beach clean up
- Instead of birthday gifts ask for donation items to donate to a shelter
Important: make sure to communicate with the shelter first before donating items. In order to get a clear understanding of their needs.
35. Go Strawberry Picking
Enjoy a sweet day and go strawberry picking.
That is all for the 21st birthday ideas, wishing you the happiest of birthdays!
Don’t forget to take lots of pictures to commemorate your birthday.
